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Me dan Hubs (Part 1)

Assalamuailaikum..
Dah lama sebenarnya nk cerita mengenai Me and my Hubs.
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-Starting 2009-
Kiteorg jumpa di Umskal,first year,di Megalab (sapa yg pernah belaja kat sana tahu tempat ni ☺☺☺). Yaaa that time nk siapkan assignment yg due date nya bakal tiba, jd student2 pun sibuk laa cari kengkawan yg dah siap assignment tu nk copy mengopy (include my Hubs ☺). Then kat situ laa kteorg first met sbb nk pinjam assignment jak.hahaha

Second met dekat Double A (ex student Umskal tahu kat mana tempat ni), dia nk pulangkan balik assignment tu. Dari situ laa kteorg berkenalan. Satu course yg sama, satu kokum yg sama, kelas yg sama...(sweet sangat, semuanya sama )

Then, we friend until 2012...ups and down in relationship..(do Me care )..hahaha..then, sebelum Me finish study, Hubs ajak kahwin..the problem is, parents Me xtahu tentang kewujudan Hubs. They only know Me is alone (means x kawan dengan lelaki mana2)..takut nk bagi tahu sebenar mengenai ini kepada parents, sebab Me is ready but parents want Me continue study at Master level. The main reasons Me still young (ye ke?) and unemployment..macamna nak survive ooo selepas kahwin...huhuhu..Hubs call my dad minta izin nk jumpa and bincang mengenai ini, but my dad say *kita tangguhkan dulu ya sbb Me baru hbs belajar dan banyak lagi Me nk buat*(lebih kurang ayat macam tu la). Terus mama call Me, marah dan ask Why?? Menangis jangan cakaplaaa..teresak3 ok, cinta tidak direstui 

So, hubs and Me decide tak cakap mengenai kahwin until Me habis study at Master level. We continue our relationship without parents known about it..jumpa pun sembunyi-sembunyi (jahat Me )- yelaa cinta tak direstui la kata kan..

.until one day, 2014, Hubs cakap 

*sampai bila kita nak macam ni ya?sayang xnak bagi tahu mamapapa pasal kita?*

Me was like  

My hubs continue :
*kalau sayang x berani cakap dengan mamapapa,abg tak tahu macamna dengan hubungan kita ok. Abg cuma nak akhiri hubungan kita cara yg baik iaitu berkahwin. Selamatkan kita dari fitnah dunia.*

Again, Me was like 
Tak tahu nak cakap macamana, Me was not ready to tell parents about this (you know what, this prob become from Me, sebab x berani suara kan mengenai benda baik.)-sorry abg *Me cry at the river*

My hubs continue again :
*kalau sayang sayangkan hubungan ni, terus terang dekat mamapapa tentang hubungan kita. Bagi tahu abg nk datang jumpa family sayang untuk bincang mengenai ini. Kalau mamapapa setuju, alhamdulillah..kalau x, kita berserah pada Allah ya.*

Againnnnnn, Me was like 
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Semalaman tak tidur fikir pasal ni..duk fikir macamna nak buat ayat nk bg tahu parents hubs nk jumpa..at that time is cuti mid sem selama seminggu, so my hubs cakap kalau boleh nk jumpa wekend at that week..Me balas, ahhh ok In Shaa Allah. ( Me was like  *death*-apalaaa aku nk cakap kat mamapapa ni)

Dua hari dekat rumah, it going well, tiga empat hari kat rumah .... Omgeee, aku nk cakap macamna ni, wekend ni dah laa nk mai..omgeee omgeeeee...so,that time, mandi x basah,tidur x lena, setiap detik waktu rasa macam beban di hati..resah..selagi benda ni x diluahkan, rasa resah tu akan sentiada ada disitu. My hubs banyk kali tanya,da bagi tahu mamapapa ke and Me was likeeeeeeee -can you stop asking it again n again n again  (ok,itu cakap dlm hati ya)hahaha...
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Me berdoa kepada Allah beri kekuatan untuk bercakap mengenai ini..and finally Me cakap dekat papa first :

*Pa, kawan farah nk jumpa papa boleh x?*

*sapa dia?*

*kawan farah yg call papa dulu tu..*

*ermm,wat apa nk jumpa?*

*nak kenal-kenal mamapapa.*
-silent-

*bila nak datang?*

*minggu ni,boleh x pa?*

*pa ok..pergi tanya mama..*

(alhamdulillah, papa bagi green light...mama??waduhhhhh.)-
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*mama,kawan farah nk jumpa mamapapa,boleh x?*
-silent first-

*sebab apa, nk kahwin?*

*dia nak kenal3 mamapapa dulu.*

*xpayah datang..kamu pun x hbs belajar lagi..jng nk mengada-ngada..*

(ok,that time seriously Me was sooo sad, meninitik jugalaaa tp nasib x nmpk..)

The next day, Me spoke again to my mom..

*Ma boleh x kawan farah nk jumpa mama?*

*kenapa kamu ni,kan mama cakap jangan nak mengada-ngada.*

*Boleh laa ma,kawan farah nk jumpa kenal-kenal mamapapa dulu.*

*farah,kamu tu x habis belajar lagi taw, habiskan belajar dulu.*

*Tapi kawan farah nk jumpa jer..xboleh ker mama?*

*Yerlaa jumpa jer,nnt ajak nk bincang pasal kahwin.(ok, itu betul).*

*Jumpa laa dulu mama....*

*xda...kamu x boleh sabar ya. Kenapa nak kahwin awal-awal sangat.kerja pun belum ada. Dia kerja apa,boleh ke tanggung kamu?perkara ni jangan buat main-main farah.*

-masa ni Me dah menangis taw, mempertahankan untuk bawa my hubs jumpa mamapapa.-
Akhirnya mama x setuju nak jumpa dengan my hubs. Me was so sad, semalaman menangis....
-my hubs text, sudah beritahu mamapapa?-
Me x balas....

-Continue.....-



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